夫妻登泰山,为何需谨慎?我的观点来了

我觉得吧,夫妻一起爬泰山这种事,说实话,老实讲,其实挺纠结的。首先,你得想想,泰山那么高,那么险,两个家庭浓缩成一对夫妻,一起上去,多多少少会有压力吧。我前几年就跟着我媳妇儿爬过一次,那叫一个酸爽。

记得那天早上,我们三点多就出发了,天还没亮,就一个劲儿往上爬。那时候,我整个人就跟热锅上的蚂蚁似的,心里想着,这爬完这山,我这这辈子也算有个圆满了。结果,到了山顶,一摸鼻子,黏糊糊的,全是汗。我刚想说点什么,结果媳妇儿就给我来了个抱抱,那一刻,我差点儿泪崩。

说实话,爬泰山这种事,对夫妻俩来说,考验的还是彼此的耐力和默契。有个段子说得好,夫妻俩,一个像茶,一个像奶,一开始很配,爬过泰山之后,可能就剩茶水了。哈哈哈,这话说得了有点夸张,但是也是那么回事。

再说了,其实夫妻俩爬泰山面临的困难,不仅仅是体力上的。有时候,你看,两个人,一个乐观一个悲观,一个能干一个 lazy,那在泰山上的生活可就美了。比如,你饿得半死的时候,旁边那位还可能跟没事人似的,玩儿得不亦乐乎。

我有个朋友,他和他媳妇儿就是典型的例子。那俩人,一个能攀登,一个就得拉。结果呢, undermines his rhythm and disrupted my own sense of balance. Cuz I ended up carrying most of the load. And believe me,it wasn't just weight, but alsoher complaints, her doubts, her fears. All of which, I had to deal with, alone.

I remember that one particular moment, we were halfway up the mountain, and my friend's wife decided to take a break. She sat down, pulled out her picnic basket, and started eating. And guess what? I was left carrying the backpack, looking after her, while she enjoyed her lunch. It was a truly humbling experience。

So, here's my două cuvinte: I think you should think twice before tackling the Tai Mountain as a couple. It's not just a physical feat, it's a spiritual one, too. And hey, if you're not sure you can handle it, maybe you should consider a more subdued activity, like visiting a nearby tea house or taking a gentle walk in the park.

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